Supporting Parents of Children with Speech and Communication Difficulties

11/08/2025 | Hazel Loo
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When parenting feels especially hard

Parenting is often described as the most rewarding and most demanding role we can take on. But when your child experiences speech and communication difficulties, that journey can feel particularly complex, full of highs, lows, and countless moments of uncertainty.
As a psychologist who works with families of children with additional needs, I want to gently acknowledge something that often goes unspoken: this is hard, and you are not alone.
Many parents describe a range of emotions, grief, confusion, guilt, frustration, and deep love all woven together. It can be heartbreaking to watch your child struggle to express their thoughts, needs, or emotions. Sometimes, their tears are matched by yours when words just won’t come, and you’re left guessing how to help.

The weight of worry and daily challenges

You may worry about your child’s future. Will they make friends easily? Will they be understood in school? Will they feel confident and included? These concerns are valid and speak to the fierce love you have for your child.
When a child can’t easily communicate, frustration can mount quickly,for both of you. It takes immense patience to stay calm during misunderstandings or when routines are disrupted.
Finding the right help can also feel like a full-time job. Long waitlists, complex referral pathways, and unclear reports can make the system hard to navigate, especially when you’re already emotionally stretched. Juggling therapy appointments, school meetings, and advocacy can be exhausting. And while this advocacy is brave and important, it’s okay to admit that it’s tiring.

Feeling judged and stretched thin

School often adds another layer of anxiety. Will teachers understand your child? Will their peers be kind? Will your child be given the time they need to engage?
You might also face judgment from other parents, extended family, or professionals who don’t fully understand. When your child doesn’t “fit the mould,” criticism often replaces compassion. These moments can be deeply isolating.
On top of the emotional toll, the financial and logistical strain is real. Private therapy, time off work, and navigating multiple services can stretch families to their limits.

You deserve support too

Asking for help from professionals, friends, or support groups—is not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of strength. As you pour so much into supporting your child, it’s essential to care for yourself, too.
Seeing a psychologist can help you manage overwhelm, process emotions, and set healthy boundaries. You deserve a space where your own wellbeing is prioritised—where you can feel seen and supported.
If you’re feeling drained or unsure where to turn, know that help is available. Whether it’s one-on-one counselling, parent support groups, or guidance from professionals experienced in neurodiversity and child development, you don’t have to carry this alone. At Prosper Health Collective we offer psychology from both Clinical and Registered Psychologists in Perth to help support parents. Find out more here.

A gentle reminder

To every parent walking this path: you are doing an incredible job under incredibly challenging circumstances. If no one has said it to you recently, I see your effort. I see your love. I see your strength. You are not alone. And you deserve support just as much as your child does.